It can be pressed, or it cannot. Nobody's eyes are in that sentence.
The common read: Affordance is the visual signal that an element is interactive, so adding a shadow to a card adds an affordance to it.
A shadow adds no affordance. The word names what an object's actual properties let a person do with it, and the property is there whether or not anybody perceives it: a borderless region of a header that opens the account menu on click affords that click at three in the morning, with the lights off and nobody looking. This is a framework somebody proposed, not a result somebody measured. James Gibson put it forward in 1979. It isolates one variable.
Take the provenance honestly, because provenance is what this course sells. Gibson's own sentences were not read for this lesson. The only copy reachable here is a publisher's page confirming the book, the 1979 date and a chapter titled The Theory of Affordances, with no definition in Gibson's words anywhere on it. What reaches you is Norman's characterisation of Gibson, published under Norman's name. That is a weaker thing than Gibson and a stronger thing than the summary you have read elsewhere.
So the test has a yes and a no in it, and no observer. Can the action happen. A settings row that opens its detail screen on tap can, with no chevron, no divider and no fill anywhere near it. An order button that the address form has disabled cannot, in the full primary colour, with a hover state. Both sentences stay true when the person looking at the screen changes, which is the property the word was coined to carry.
It arrives as a ticket titled "the order button does nothing", filed against the front-end build by somebody who read the colour and not the state, closed with a comment saying the address had not validated, and filed again by four more people the same week. Split the question before anybody argues about the fix. Ask what the element can do, then ask what it shows. The first has an answer somebody can check in the build; the second is the one the room has opinions about.
